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by Charlotte Briggs <\/p>\n

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In the immortal gospel of TLC, a scrub is a guy who thinks he\u2019s fine and is also known as a buster. Whilst we try and navigate the modern age of Tinder dates and sliding into people\u2019s DMs, it\u2019s becoming more and more difficult to separate the Hugh Grant\u2019s from the Colin Firth\u2019s.<\/p>\n

So how do you know if you should call it quits with your significant other?<\/p>\n

1. You pay for everything<\/h2>\n

I\u2019m not just talking about dates here (although it\u2019s nice to be treated occasionally). If you\u2019re paying for his car, rent or his baby mama, you\u2019d better drop him like he\u2019s hot.<\/p>\n

2. He constantly checks out other girls<\/h2>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong with window shopping other hotties from afar with the right company. It\u2019s rude AF to commit the crime in front of your boo, and can cause major issues in yourself and the relationship.<\/p>\n

3. He makes you feel insecure<\/h2>\n

In the book of dating 101, this is an unforgivable offence. Whether he jokes about your biggest insecurities or he\u2019s controlling and manipulative, you\u2019d better get out ASAP.<\/p>\n

4. He only thinks about himself<\/h2>\n

His utterly selfish conversations revolve solely around his life and his problems. Do you think Beyonce would tolerate this kind of behaviour?<\/p>\n

5. He doesn\u2019t support you<\/h2>\n

Your dreams, your goals, your decision making whether good or bad. A good boyfriend should be your number one fan and have your back, no matter what.<\/p>\n

6. He cheats<\/h2>\n

Need I say more? Next!<\/p>\n

7. The hot and cold syndrome<\/h2>\n

There\u2019s nothing more infuriating than a guy who constantly blows hot and cold. A good relationship needs to show a consistent level of love and loyalty, even when the going gets tough.<\/p>\n

8. He talks about his ex<\/h2>\n

Whether that\u2019s completely bashing her or telling a tale of lost love, someone who talks about their ex too much clearly isn\u2019t over them. Dodge that bullet whilst you can.<\/p>\n

9. He doesn\u2019t try with your friends and family<\/h2>\n

My friends and family are my entire world, so if my S.O didn\u2019t bother letting on to them, it\u2019d be over before it even started.<\/p>\n

10. He doesn\u2019t make you happy<\/h2>\n

The most obvious reason for telling that boy to hit the road. If he doesn\u2019t make you happy, then it\u2019s time to call it quits.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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